Saturday, May 22, 2010

Girls, my guy is out of town and i haven't been contacting him b/c i know that i will just end up?

sitting around and waiting for his reply and it will bother me, but instead...b/c i haven't been initiating contact, he has started like...taking more initiative and maybe....expressing some worry that he thinks i don't miss him or something, and i kind of like it that he is concerned that i don't miss him....is it bad for me to feel this way?

Girls, my guy is out of town and i haven't been contacting him b/c i know that i will just end up?
its not bad, or at least its not wrong of you.. maybe it will show him that he needs to step up a little bit.. and maybe you need to give him some more space? (like you are now). its good for him to let you know he cares by being worried (as long as its not exessive).. he cares thats all that matters. but dont drag it out too much, dont torture him haha
Reply:oh, stop playing the game...........why not just talk to him and tell him you miss him......express to him how you feel.


Guys like that and he will like you more for it!
Reply:No, its a good test for your boyfriend to show how much you do mean to him. Even if he calls just to check in once, it shows he cares. You can always find time to make a 2 minute phone call. No excuses.
Reply:Haha cute. There is nothing wrong with feeling that way! He is thinking thing the same thing over there going "hey.. why doesn't she miss me and text me a lot?" which is the same as you liking that he is concerned. You just like that he cares. :) Everyones like that.
Reply:u shouldn't call him but tx him and say ilove u and miss u. don't wait for the "i love u too " or anything like that just let him know. and no it's not good to let him or u think that it's fine.... i mean if u love him he will understand. trust me .... talking from experience.
Reply:No thats good .. he should feel that way it tells you he cares!
Reply:No, it's natural for you to want to make sure you're wanted as much as you want him.





You've been doing the work... feeling bad... now it's his time to respond to you when you talk to him, and call you first.
Reply:no. it's normal. he should take some initiative. just be honest with him. tell him how you feel. explain that it's not that you don't miss him, but it makes you really happy when he is the one to contact you more often.


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